“(Real) love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence.” – Erich Fromm…
(The following post is abridged, adapted, and modified from Bernie Siegel’s essay “Love: The Work of The Soul“ in “Handbook for the Soul,” compiled by Richard Carlson, Benjamin Shield, pp. 39-44.)
In my work as a physician, I’ve observed that people who face life-threatening illness are often able to recover the ability that most of us have lost by the time we reach adulthood—the ability to connect with the soul. The childlike sense of awe and wonder is too often replaced by a preoccupation with how we look, whether we’re making enough money, what will the neighbors think, what do our parents think, et cetera. In other words, our fears, and ego (pride, vanity, insecurity, greed), begin controlling us.
But in many cases, people who face a life-threatening illness and who’ve become aware of their mortality find they’ve gained the freedom to live. They are seized by an appreciation for the present: this is my life, I’m not going to have this moment again. They spend more time with the people and things they love and less time with people and pastimes that don’t offer love or joy. This seems so simple.
Shouldn’t we all spend our lives that way?
But we tend not to make those kinds of choices until somebody says, “You have twelve months left to live.”
I like to go for a run every morning. When I jog, I love to run through cemeteries, and sometimes I stop to read the headstones. I saw one recently at the grave of a man who died at twenty-eight—so young! It read: “His life taught us how to live; his death, how to die.” That’s what ought to be on every headstone. I’d say this person accomplished whatever he needed to accomplish in twenty-eight years. Now, other people had on their headstones that they went to Harvard or Yale or that they were lawyers or manufacturers. But I don’t think God cares where we graduated or what we did for a living. I think God wants to know who we are. Discovering this is the work of the soul—it is our true life’s work.
It’s so easy to become someone we don’t want to be, without even realizing it’s happening. We are created by thechoiceswe makeevery day. And if we are always taking action in order to please people, or because we’re afraid of what others might think, or because we’re preoccupied with how we look or whether we’re making enough money or advancing quickly enough, then we may wake up down the road and think, “This isn’t me. I never wanted to be this person.”
I believe that we are all here to contribute love to the planet—each of us in our own way. Whether you’re a waiter or waitress or manager or barber or run a gas station, if you are interacting with other people, then to nourish your soul, you’ve got to do what you do out of love. But to feel as if you are trapped day after day in a job you hate, or as if you’re required to play a role day after day that you don’t want to play, can be deadly to the soul. So if you can’t possibly change jobs because of expenses or insurance or the state of the economy, then try to find something in your life—whether it’s volunteer work or painting or writing a poem—about which you can say, “This is my joy.” Also, if you don’t like your life and if you don’t think you can change your external circumstance at this point, you can change your attitude toward your life. You can say, “All right, I choose to be happy. I choose to view what I do every day as a way of contributing love.” When you go about your life with this attitude, you’ll find that your circumstances do begin to change. To paraphrase the anthropologist Ashley Montagu, “The way I change my life is to act as if I’m the person I want to be.” When you wake up and act like a loving person, you realize not only that you’re different, but that other people around you are also different. You see differently, you see them differently, you interact with them differently.
We are the lucky ones
We shine like a thousand suns
When all of the colour runs together
I’ll keep you company
In one glorious harmony
Waltzing with destiny forever
Dance me into the night
Underneath the moon shining so bright
Turning me into the light
Time dances whirling past
I gaze through the looking glass
And feel just beyond my grasp is heaven
Sacred geometry
Where movement is poetry
Visions of you and me forever
Dance me into the night
Underneath the moon shining so bright
Turning me into the light
Dance me into the night
Underneath the moon shining so bright
Let the dark waltz begin
Oh let me wheel – let me spin
Let it take me again
Turning me into the light
“Dark Waltz”
We are the lucky ones
We shine like a thousand suns
When all of the colour runs together
I’ll keep you company
In one glorious harmony
Waltzing with destiny forever
Dance me into the night
Underneath the moon shining so bright
Turning me into the light
Time dances whirling past
I gaze through the looking glass
And feel just beyond my grasp is heaven
Sacred geometry
Where movement is poetry
Visions of you and me forever
Dance me into the night
Underneath the moon shining so bright
Turning me into the light
Dance me into the night
Underneath the moon shining so bright
Let the dark waltz begin
Oh let me wheel – let me spin
Let it take me again
Turning me into the light
Philosophers have speculated on it, politicians have extolled it, poets have waxed lyrical about it, people in authority have tried to suppressed it; and some people have even died for it. The issue in question is Freedom.
The purpose of what follows is to provoke readers’ thoughts by considering the issue of freedom from the perspective of hope. By addressing questions such as ‘what does it mean to be free?’ and ‘Is freedom a precondition of hope?’, I will argue that ‘individual freedom’ or ‘personal freedom’ is an illusion – possibly one of the last great illusions of today’s world.
In our postmodern world, which has shattered so many illusions, there is one illusion that has remained stubbornly persistent. This is the illusion of individual freedom. Although most people no longer believe in the utopian classless society prophesised by Marx and his followers, most people (at least in the West) continue to believe in the illusion of individual freedom.
When we peel back the layers of the beautifully adorned illusion of individual freedom, we perceive a truth that is frightening and alarming. Notwithstanding considerable pretense and unconscious self-deception, the raw truth is that most of us are trapped in a predictable pattern of consumer routines from which there is little escape. We have been captivated by the superficial appeal of consumer goods that have taken possession of our lives. We often lack the imagination to conceive of viable alternatives or even to recognise the condition of entrapment in which we find ourselves. The dominant consumerist paradigm of modern society has created a black hole of hopelessness, an abyss of despair into which all vital signs of life and hope are inexorably sucked.
We live as if we were free but all the while our choices are predetermined by a powerful media and advertising industry that shapes our unthinking assumptions about what it means to be human.
The poets have not been silent on this issue:
‘Ich habe stets geglaubt, das Ruder selbst zu halten, und fuhr doch nur auf vorbestimmten Bahnen hin’. (English: ‘I always believed that I was holding the wheel, but I was travelling all the while on paths that had already been determined for me’ – Reinhard Mey, ‘All’ meine Wege‘).
Likewise, Rene Girard wrote in an essay on Dostoevsky, that, ‘We pretend we are free but we are not telling the truth. We are hypnotised by ridiculous gods and our suffering is doubled by the knowledge that they are ridiculous. Like the man from the underground we gravitate around these gods in a comfortless orbit fixed by the balance of contrary forces.’
We are told what clothes we should wear, what food we should eat, how we should spend our free time, with whom we should associate, what gadgets we need to buy. The price of non-conformity is to be denied entry into the club of social acceptability.
Thanks to the development of a consumer culture that dominates our advanced capitalist society, we have reached the tragi-comic condition in which we recognise ourselves in our commodities. We look at our shiny cars, our fancy clothes and our accumulated technological tat and find our souls reflected therein; we purchase goods not only for their utility and function, but also for their power to convey identity and status. Despite the impressive technological advances of the past few years, the ‘progress’ has come at a price: our i-pod, mobile-phone, sat-nav, email-obsessed culture creates a false human being, a uniform being who learns how to find happiness in what is given to him by the technology industry. Our souls are created in the image of what we possess.
As a result, we are forced to express our identity through our consumer choices. Such is the controlling influence of the capitalist/consumerist ideology, that many of us do not realise that our prevailing conceptions of freedom are in fact part of the conditions that keep us in servitude. Capitalism tells us to equate freedom with choice. “Freedom is choice and choice is freedom!” – this is the motto of capitalism. Freedom is said to consist in the proliferation of consumer choice.
This myopic conception of freedom is highlighted in Willy Russell’s stage comedy, Educating Rita, which tells the story of the eponymous heroine, who, feeling trapped by her working class lifestyle, attempts to break free by taking an Open University course in English Literature. In one memorable scene, her unsympathetic husband, Denny, tries to explain that real choice means being able to choose which beer to drink and which football team to support. Rita, however, is unconvinced and senses a deep desire to experience real freedom and to break out of the narrow constraints imposed by her social status.
What does the Christian faith have to offer someone like Rita? Notwithstanding the shameful history of certain authorities that called themselves ‘the Church’ – a hierarchical institution that pursued a brutal, bloody and sustained campaign of censorship, inquisition, torture and the burning and emaciation of those it deemed to be ‘heretics’ – freedom is and always has been the foundation of Christian belief. Christianity is a religion of radical emancipation. The founder of Christianity came preaching a radical message of freedom: ‘The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he hath … sent me … to preach deliverance to the captives’ (Luke 4:18); ‘And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free … If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed’ (John 8:32,36).
Christian theology teaches that truth is a precondition of true freedom: falsehood enslaves and truth liberates. In direct contradiction to the capitalist/consumerist notion of freedom as the absence of restraint or the superabundance of choice, Christian tradition and the teaching of the scriptures posit a deeply counter-cultural conception of the essence of freedom. Christian teaching reminds us not to unthinkingly equate the condition of freedom with wilfulness or arbitrariness. This kind of absolute freedom is a chimera. It amounts to what Dostoevsky called “living by one’s own dumb will” and leads to spiritual self-enslavement and to the capricious will of one’s own nature. This kind of ‘freedom’ constitutes an existential abyss.
Since Isaiah Berlin wrote his famous essay on two kinds of liberty, the version of ‘negative freedom’ that he advocated has become the ideological mainstay of the so-called ‘liberal democracies’ of the West. In fact, this conception of liberty has been part of dominant ideology ever since John Stuart Mill published his celebrated 1859 essay, On Liberty, in which he argued that, ‘the only purpose for which power can be rightfully exercised over any member of a civilized community, against his will, is to prevent harm to others. His own good, either physical or moral, is not a sufficient warrant’.
For Mill the individual is sovereign and no-one has the right to infringe anyone’s individual freedom on condition that the individual was not harming anyone else. The trouble is that Mill’s arguments are based on ambiguous premises concerning what is understood by ‘freedom’ and ‘harm’. His conception of these terms were derived not from natural rights, but imposed by a rigid utilitarian calculus that did not do justice to the manifold variety, complexities, vicissitudes, paradoxes and even contradictions of the human condition.
English: John Stuart Mill’s On Social Freedom: or the Necessary Limits of Individual Freedom Arising Out of the Conditions of Our Social Life in the Oxford and Cambridge Review, June of 1907. This is the original publication of the essay. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
The problem with ‘negative liberty’ is that it attempts to base a theory of ethics on an existential abyss of absolute freedom. Freedom is not an ontological substance, but a mode of existence. Since freedom lacks a positive content, freedom becomes a force in human life only to the extent that it can connect with something that has such a positive content. Freedom is thus a predicate of human life, which constitutes the ‘subject’ of freedom. Freedom in this sense is analogous to nothingness; it exists only as a logical abstraction in relation to real essences. On these premises, we can conclude that, philosophically speaking, freedom does not exist, even in an abstract sense.
The theological conception of freedom posits a proper connection of freedom as a modality of human existence that only becomes substantive and transformative to the extent that it is able to connect with something that does have ontological substance, such as truth or love. The freedom that inheres in the will of God encompasses the irregularities and vicissitudes of human nature and recognises that the world contains infinite possibilities, which must be realised through God’s providential will.
This insight helps us to form a proper conception of the role of prophecy and the creative tension that inheres in the threshold between human freedom and divine will. All the prophecies of the Bible should be understood in the light of this tension. Prophecy is not a mechanical communication of future events. The goal of biblical prophecy, rather, as Sergei Bulgakov, points out, is ‘to indicate what is possible and to deflect what should not be, by an appeal to repentance and courage’ [Невесте Агнца, 1945].
It follows, as Bulgakov himself concludes, that the truly prophetic figure is someone who is aware of the spiritual forces acting in history and knows all the possibilities contained within the infinite sphere of the effective action of God for whom all things are possible.
To return to the case of our working-class hero, Rita: she was correct, of course, in one sense at least; she was self-evidently right to challenge her husband’s conception of freedom as the ability to choose which beer to drink or which football team to support. Neither is freedom the absence of restraint or the ability to act capriciously. Rather, the precondition to freedom is knowing that the world is governed by the will of God. Then comes the recognition that we have the choice either to fulfill it, or not fulfill it, in freedom.
There is the freedom to choose from a variety of alternatives within a given set of co-ordinates. This is the kind of freedom that a person has when he (or she) chooses according to the options that a consumer society makes available to him or her. For example, if I were rich, I would be able to choose between a Bentley and a Rolls-Royce; if I were less well off, I would have the freedom to choose between, say, a Honda or a Peugeot. True freedom, however, would be the freedom to step outside of the coordinates that have been set by the dominant consumer culture. Perhaps if I were able to do this, I would be able to defy the false choice offered to me by the dominant culture and buy less so that others will be able to have more.
Belief in God, with whom nothing is impossible, endows us with thefreedom to change the coordinates and to envision the kind of reality for which a whole generation of disillusioned seekers is crying out. If we are able to attain to this kind of freedom, our talk and our whole public discourse, which has been degenerated and devalued by vacuous prattle and frivolous tittle-tattle, will be transformed into a series of speech acts of liberation that will elevate human beings to a new level of consciousness of freedom.
There are various philosophical (Hegel, for instance, comes to mind) and theological (Karl Barth, Paul Tillich?) warrants for these claims. The most compelling, in my judgement, is the fact that this conception of freedom corresponds with the teaching of the true Prophet of Freedom: the one who announced that ‘You shall know the truth and the truth will set you free’. This kind of freedom consists in submitting the will to the necessity that inheres in the will of God and realising this purpose through radical acts of freedom in conformity with the character of Christ.
When we comprehend this truth, then we might be able to recognise the great truth contained in the paradoxical words of this remarkable hymn by George Matheson:
‘Make me a captive, Lord. And then I shall be free; Force me to render up my sword, And I shall conqueror be. I sink in life’s alarms, When by myself I stand, Imprison me within Thine arms, And strong shall be my hand.
My will is not my own, Till Thou hast made it Thine; If it would reach the monarch’s throne, It must its crown resign; It only stands unbent, Amid the clashing strife, When on Thy bosom it has leant, And found in Thee its life.’
Being Free 